Dan Harris: Mindfulness, Fear, and Love Without the Cringe
Dan Harris, author of 10% Happier, joins Dr. Rick and I for a wide-ranging, open, and personal conversation. We explore dealing with anxiety and fear, sustaining a mindfulness practice, and accepting our nature while leaning into a new version of ourselves. Along the way we talk about the benefits and drawbacks of purely secular approaches to mindfulness, Dan’s recent time with the Dalai Lama, and why an “anti-sentimentalist” is writing a book about love.
About our Guest: Dan Harris is the author of the best-selling memoir 10% Happier, about a fidgety, skeptical news anchor who finds meditation. He’s also the host of the Ten Percent Happier podcast and the cofounder of the Ten Percent Happier meditation app. For 21 years, he worked at ABC News, where he anchored such shows as Nightline and the weekend editions of Good Morning America.
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Key Topics:
0:00: Introduction
1:05: Dan’s history with panic attacks, and using exposure therapy
6:15: Pros and cons of mindfulness in a secular frame
9:15: Moving away from a purely secular frame
12:10: Dan’s current meditation practice
16:15: Sustaining practice, and the pros and cons of stubbornness
20:15: Passion and purpose without attachment
27:50: Dan’s takeaways from the Dalai Lama
30:45: Caring, sharing, and marking your virtuous moments
33:30: An ‘anti-sentimental’ look at love
44:50: Recognizing personal change
47:55: If you can’t be cheesy, you can’t be free
51:40: Recap
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